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Boundaries, Avoidance & the “Unbothered” Lie

We say it’s boundaries... but is it actually just avoidance?
We act \"unbothered\"... but are we just emotionally numb and calling it power?

In this episode of Café con Yeli, I dive into the hot takes no one wants to admit.

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Boundaries, Avoidance & the “Unbothered” Lie

We say it’s boundaries... but is it actually just avoidance?
We act \"unbothered\"... but are we just emotionally numb and calling it power?

In this episode of Café con Yeli, I dive into the hot takes no one wants to admit.